
Most of us need someone or something in order to feel accomplished. Without that reassurance or admiration we feel lost maybe even inadequate. We need people to “See Me.”
What if no one sees you? Can you still show up?
Assuming that you’re like the majority of us, wishing (maybe even yearning) to be recognized. This relates to the fact that validation from others just feels good.
In childhood your need for reassurance and approval, helped you feel accepted and secure, consequently, more comfortable inside yourself.
What if you never get that reassurance.
Are you’re gonna not follow your dreams because you think no one will see you, praise you, support you or make you feel good.
Well I’m gonna say, stop waiting and “show up even if no one applauds you.” Dance as if someone is dancing with you. Inspire to inspire yourself. Do things for yourself that make you feel good.
Motivate your mind to be the best you!
Applaud yourself!
Admiration starts within. If you’re admiring yourself and living from that space, it becomes infectious. You start to build on your confidence, (assuming your not letting your ego thrive.)
When you build on your confidence, your personal self, you stop feeling like you need see me, or feel good, admiration from life but instead you are able to see yourself as life and admire all that it offers you.
When you’re admiring your own life and living from that, even a blind person will see you and admire your light!
But if no one ever turn on your light, your light still exist. Turn it on yourself!
I’m here writing this blog because I’m showing up for myself, doing what I love no matter who see me.
I just exhale from the depth of my soul and let my spirit guide me.
I see me, I feel me, I am me and that’s all the applause I need.
Love Light & Energy
Thank you for reading!
❤ Pamela
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This is exactly what I needed to hear because I have been struggling with lack of support and not being able to pick my blog off of the ground. I even took a break for a while. Now I’m back at it like a crack addict!
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I write for me to keep me motivated so glad it can help someone else.
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I came to read this because it was posted on Twitter only to realize that I’ve already read it! #fried I need sleep!
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Lol thanks!
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I understand this all too well. I keep asking myself why am I doing this (blogging/life)? What do I want to achieve? Is it worth it if the measure of success is not the same as others? What does it mean to me? And then we’re back at… Why are you doing this?
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Just keep doing what you do for you. I believe that if you’re passionate enough about it people will see that and support!
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This is so beautiful Pamela and also very true!!
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Thank you so much!
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Love this! So inspiring. 🙂
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Thank you so much!
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Great advice…and when you do keep showing up, someone will eventually notice!
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Yes Rachel so true… at least that’s what I’m gonna believe!
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This is so true. It all starts with being your own biggest fan and the rest will follow. Thank you for this post x
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You’re welcome… thank you for reading!
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Thanks for the inspiration! Trying to get your blog moving can be discouraging. This is great — thanks!
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Your welcome!
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Yes! We always have at least One cheering us on. God sees all that we do.
Reminds me of the verse Colossians 3:23 Whatever you do, do it from the heart, as something done for the Lord and not for people.
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Yes He does and that’s really all we need! I agree!
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It’s always a blessing to hear n read encouraging words from others I’m a widow n I sometimes need an inspiring word thank you so much for sharing 😊❤️🙏🏽
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You’re welcome!
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Thank you for reading!
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Reblogged this on My Map to Success and commented:
I constantly change my thoughts from I need someone to appear me to applaud myself. Once those thoughts pop into my head, I counter act it with. I validate myself so I applaud myself for work well done. It really works!
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Thank you so much for reading and sharing!
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Reblogged this on Cristian Mihai.
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I read this because you put it out there.
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Thank you so much for reading 😊
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Thanks, the timing is that we are here at the same time.
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Do you feel like interacting with me? I can if you do.
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Gave me a confidence boost. Thanks!
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You’re certainly welcome! Thanks for reading!
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